Yelling and Screaming at Your Dog: Guilty?

Yelling and Screaming at Your Dog: Guilty?

If I were to point my finger at one bad habit, it would be yelling and screaming at your dog. Do you have this bad habit? Not sure? Take a look in the mirror and see if your face is turning red.
Yelling and Screaming at Your Dog: Guilty?I’m not pointing any fingers, but I see the bad habits of dog owners every day. Most of them don’t realize what they are doing and how it affects their dog.

It’s not too late to change. Your dog will approve and support you all the way! He’s just that kind of guy.

Many owners get so frustrated with their dog’s bad or nuisance behavior that they yell and scream when correcting their dog. Their emotional energy is off the chart.

A Dog’s Uncanny Ability

Dogs have an uncanny ability to read the energy of the weather. Dogs know when a storm is brewing before the bottom falls out of the sky in your neighborhood. Yes, your dog. Many of you have dogs that, in anticipation of the storm, start heading for the closet.

So if they can read the energy of the weather, how difficult do you think it is for them to also read your emotional energy?

No matter what words you are saying your energy speaks to your dog. He is watching, listening and interpreting every subtle change in your energy.  

Yelling and screaming creates an unstable environment in which your dog has to exist. This creates stress and anxiety in your dog. Tension builds in your dog, he gets frustrated and dog behavior problems surface.

Losing your cool causes you to lose your dog’s respect.

The solution is to work on projecting calm energy to your dog. Be the strong and respected pack leader your dog needs. Still feeling lost? Read on my friend.

Observe, Train and Change Your Dog

The marines have a strategy when they are faced with situations that are not going as planned, “Improvise, overcome and adapt.”

No, it’s not time to call in the marines! I have a similar strategy I’ve used successfully for years when situations with dogs are not going as planned.

Here’s My Success Strategy

Observe your dog’s unwanted behavior (make a list), train the behavior you prefer in that situation and that changes your dog.

Here’s a good example:  

  • If your dog is counter surfing in the kitchen, put it on your list of bad dog behaviors.
  • Next to the bad behavior, write down a preferred behavior. That could be laying on his place mat/dog bed while you cook in the kitchen or just staying completely out of the kitchen.
  • Teach your dog to do the preferred behavior.
  • Now you have to practice every day by pretending you’re cooking. Break out the sharp cheddar cheese and crackers to do a set up. Yum! Tempting already!

If it’s “stay out of the kitchen” you want, I sometimes put low-tack painter’s tape on the floor for a visual boundary and spray the tape with Listerine. Now your dog can not only see the boundary but smell it as well. Consistency and daily repetition is the key in training “Out!” of the kitchen. Train your dog until you get the compliance you need.

Now, scratch that one off and go to the next behavior!

It’s so much easier harnessing that good energy and using it to teach your dog the behaviors you prefer. You will spend less energy and be happier. That’s nice, isn’t it?

Thanks for letting me share my dog training knowledge with you.   Don’t be a stranger.  Feel free to comment below.  I’d love to hear what you think.   

Remember:  “Together, We Can Raise a Happy and Obedient Dog”

Jim Burwell, Houston dog trainer for 25+ years, serving over 10,000 clients, has a profound understanding of dog behavior and the many things, we as humans, do that influence that behavior – good or bad.  Jim has the ability to not only steer dogs and puppies down the right path but to also train the owners to understand their part in having a great dog.

2 replies
  1. Jim
    Jim says:

    Samantha: thanks for writing in. It’s not possible to solve issues likes yours via email. I have a a couple hundred articles on here that are free for you to read and put into use. If you
    need/want one to one help from me then we can do that via private video coaching. You have a gmail account and that makes it simple. The cost of the private video coaching is $95/hr minimum 2 sessions of 1 hour each. You can read about that and watch testimonials on this process by going here:

  2. Samantha
    Samantha says:

    My 10 week old puppy’s bad habit is biting – I’m not talking the usual nipping and mouthing of a puppy though. She literally lunges and jumps and tries to bite down hard, mainly with hands and fingers, and feet and toes. I can’t walk anywhere without her pouncing on my feet, be they in socks, shoes, or bare, and biting down hard. It really really hurts, shes ripped skin off my ankle before, only a small amount like a graze but it still hurt and had a pinprick of blood. She does the same with hands I have marks that look like scratch marks but are actually from her biting and dragging or if I have pulled my hand away while she’s biting. I’m trying so hard to calmly but firmly tell her no and redirect her to something she IS allowed to bite, or tell her no and then ignore her and praise her when she walks away and finds something else, but its so difficult to keep your cool when you’re being bitten with sharp little teeth, and sometimes I just want to shout at her because it really hurts and its an impulsive reaction to want to scream at someone for hurting you badly. I try not to because I want her to be in a stable environment, and I worry what she will be like around family this christmas, especially the kids. I think she thinks me walking is some sort of game with my feet. The same with my hands and fingers too, I can’t even stroke her without her wanting to bite my hands and fingers. She’s got plenty of chew toys so I don’t know why she’s doing it. I’ve tried yelping like her littermates would have, she backs off for two or three seconds, then does it all again. I’m at my wits end I just don’t know what to do, please please help me!

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