“Wow! I never thought of that! How clever. And, it works!”
The leash is only taken off when you cannot personally supervise your dog – say at night when you are asleep or gone from the house.
I was on a dog forum recently and reading about a bad dog jumping habit someone was complaining about. That reminded me of a past client and still, to this day, I am absolutely astounded at this phenomenon. The fact is, a leash or line on your dog “in the house” is your best offensive tactic to gaining control of your puppy or dog. They are just much better behaved. If they are not on leash, they tend to make decisions of which we don’t approve.
I am literally amazed at the number of homes I go to with rowdy and unruly adolescent dogs and out-of-control puppies – all with one thing in common! They are all off leash – not attached to their owner in any way, shape or form!
Thinking back to this client, my first lesson was with their out of control rescue pup – small 15 pounder as I remember, 18 months old and certainly friendly enough but he spent the first 10 – 15 minutes of the lesson hurling himself at me and his owners trying to get up on the sofa to finally make his way to “a lap” for his share of love and affection. I couldn’t believe they watched their dog do this to me. But it wouldn’t stop there. It was up-your-chest, lick-your-face and do it again over and over! Certainly the owners thought it was cute initially but it was now getting out of control (and that’s why they called me. 🙂
As we discussed their priority issues with their new pup, current behavior being at the top of the list, I simply put a leash on their dog and put my foot on the leash close to his collar giving him some maneuvering room but preventing his jumping.
I gave him a stuffed Kong toy and said, “Settle.” I then ignored the dog. He fussed and struggled for a while and then settled down with his Kong toy. When he tired of that he fussed a little more and then finally settled down while we talked.
Once he was quiet and relaxed for a while (about 5-10 minutes) I asked him to sit and invited him up on the sofa to sit nicely next to me. I maintained control of him on the sofa with the leash.
At the first attempt to crawl up and lick my face, I simply removed him from the sofa, using the leash (not making a fuss) and settled him on the floor once again – foot on the leash. On the third attempt to sit nicely by my side on the sofa, we had success! Some dogs may take longer. We got lucky! By the way, we also taught him to get off the sofa as well by sending him to his dog bed which was conveniently close by.
While some may find the leash a small inconvenience, when used inside the home with their pup or dog, the end result – good manners – is achieved quickly – no, a whole lot more quickly! And it allows you to send a very strong message if you leash train your dog every day.
What’s the message: “I’m in charge. You have to listen to me now.”
Control your personal space with your dog. This means your couch and your lap. Don’t allow your dog to take charge of your space even if it is cute. Invite your dog into your space once he has earned the right by performing a sit – then say “Up!” Balance time on the couch with equal time off the couch. He’ll respect you more because you did. And, with the new consistent boundaries, your dog will be a lot less stressed and anxious.
I also explained to my clients that training helps too.
We talked about the value of combining leash control in the home with 3 daily 2-minute obedience training sessions of come, sit and down to provide him with a sense of working for his owners rather than his owners following his lead. Long walks allowed the owners to more constructively manage his energy rather than him using his destructive talents on their prized possessions back home.
I hope this information is helpful in training your dog.
Be as comfortable with the trainer of your dog as you are the teacher of your children. “Opportunity Barks1”
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Together, we can raise a happy and obedient dog
Jim Burwell is a “thanks for making the impossible, possible” professional dog trainer having trained 20,000+ dogs and counting– and serving more than 7,000 clients. Jim’s easy to follow, common sense, and positive methods have made him the “dog trainer of choice” for 30 years. One of his clients says it best:
There are people who are so good at, and passionate about, what they do, that in their presence, one can’t help thinking that they have found their true calling and are doing exactly what they should be doing on this earth. Jim is one of these rare people. His quiet and understated manner, his effective technique for training dogs (and their families) is something which I feel fortunate to have witnessed and in which to have been an active participant